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Is Love A Choice Or Feeling

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Love is so hard to explain. There are some who believe it's simply an emotion—a sort of force field, like gravity, that draws people toward one another. Others consider it something you decide—a choice to hang around, to take care of another human being, and work through the tough things. Is it something that occurs to you, then, or something you do every day of your life? Frankly, like with love itself, it's not so clear. Falling in love has that raw, dizzying thrill about it. It feels so easy and electric that you hardly have any idea what hit you. One minute you meet someone who lights up bits of you you never knew you had, and before you know it you're thinking that love is simply that feeling. Your heart thumps in your chest, your palms get slightly moist, and for one moment life is more colorful. According to some experts, it's simply because of the mix of chemicals—dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin—coursing through your brain and making you feel high and strangely...

The Love That Never Was

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Love is an enigma transcending time, reason, and logic. Destiny may link two souls, but it can also tear them a part. At times, love can choose to sit idle, waiting for the right moment to strike – unfortunately, it often chooses otherwise and reduces emotions into mere remnants. This narrative revolves around love unable to flourish; it grazes upon the heart but fails most tragically at blossoming. Some affairs of love remain undiscussed unlike others which are clear due to their profound aura. When two lovers set eyes on each other for the very first time, the seemingly mystical energy draws both together and binds them in ways unimagined. Shared cozy chats, alluring glances, and deeply romantic nights are that which awaits. Yet, for reasons beyond an individual’s grasp, fate pulls them in two different directions. It feels as though effortless love floats right above – blissfully free but refusing to ground itself. Love that has never existed is the most haunting as there is lov...

Love Languages and Physical Touch

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Human relationships are founded on love and each person expresses and receives love in a special way. Gary Chapman in The Five Love Languages introduced a model that categorizes people's ways of expressing and receiving love. They include Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch. Of these four languages, Physical Touch is a very powerful language of receiving and giving love. Physical Touch consists of loving touches such as hugs, hand-holding, cuddling, and other forms of bodily contacts. Physical touch and presence convey a sense of security and closeness to those who are sensitive to this language. Five Key Elements of Physical Touch as a Love Language 1. Emotional Connection and Security Physical touch gives a sense of stability and security. A hug or a pat on the back makes you feel supported and valued. Physical touch gives a sense of trust and reinforces intimacy between partners, family members, and close friends. 2....

Arrange Marriage vs. Love Marriage

Marriage Marriage is one of the most significant elements of human life, having implications not only for individuals but also for social systems. There are two commonly known forms of marriages in various cultures, namely, arranged marriages and love marriages. Though arranged marriages are commonly associated with convention and family, love marriages deal with choice and romantic love. Each has its strengths and limitations, and one needs to understand them in general.   Understanding Arranged Marriages Arranged marriages have been part of many traditional cultures, especially in South Asia, the Middle East, and in parts of Africa. In arranged marriages, families prioritize selecting their offspring's mate in light of social class, history of their family, level of education, and compatibility. The reason is that mature elders make rational choices that end in secure and permanent marriages. Ø   Benefits of Arranged Marriages: 1.       The F...

How to Heal from a Heartbreak: Top 7 Step-by-Step Guide

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Heartbreak is one of the most hurtful experiences of life. Whether it is the end of a long relationship or a sudden breakup, the emotional toll bears down heavily on us. Healing does take time but with the right attitude and methods, it is possible for us to emerge as stronger and resilient individuals later. The steps required to be taken for healing from heartbreak and moving forward with hope and optimism are as follows. 1.       Allow Yourself to Feel ·          Accept Your Emotions) Breakup creates a mix of sorrowful feelings of anger, confusion, and relief. Keeping these within just worsens the healing. Instead, let the feelings be yours totally. Cry if need be, vent your mind by expressing it in the form of a journal, or confide with someone that you feel comfortable with. ·          Realize That Pain Is Temporal It may be permanent for now but the feelings are fleeting. With ...